Misinterpretations!!!

When me and my best friend/sister talk sometimes it seems like she has an attitude. It's the tone in her voice that makes me assume that she has a problem. So sometimes when we argue that the reason and it gets blown way out of proportion. Another misinterpretation is me and my mom. We sometimes think different things. Like if i call her a name and im just playing with her she takes it seriously and same way around. My friends get my tones wrong to. I could say im okay kinda believable but not be okay at all. Theirs so many ways you can get the wrong assumptions on they ways they present their words. Also sometimes before assuming and starting problems you could talk to them about it.