It started the day i was born

my mom was very torn

 I'm glad that the very day

that I was born

Growing up was harder and harder

until i met my bestfriend Christian Carter

 I wanted to be like him, he wanted to be like me

Nothing was breaking our friendship, not even our enemies

Alot of good memories, and alot of bad ones

I wish the bad ones could have been the best ones

first time riding a bike, or driving a car

I knew there was much to reach it's just really far

martyrs

The martyrs was a really different thing to see.I had never seen some be parsed for dyeing. there was little kids who died then  they would celebrate like death was a victory and then james died and they martyred hem and he posters was just wired to see like there not movie stars are anything there people who died for the cause. so i don't think that i like when people martyred because your body is raised up then carried to a hole and people you might no be related to sees your body i just dont get how things work there.

Miles post

i feel like movies can change or impact peoples lives. My childhood for the most part i grew up in safe good environments. Around people who are friendly and helpful there was times when things that are bad but the world isn't perfect but they where solved.  I feel like movies can change peoples live because it shows them real life thing ands show them ways to get through it by setting an example.  Which i think is good because some people are vision leaners and people that are not there is music that can give people courage.  I also think that american has something like a martyr because people who takes down big bad guys or saves somebody they either make the news or get into the news paper.

The children in Gaza grow up in a war zone. My life is like heaven compared to theirs. They risk their life every day. We grow up with protection and no warfare. They dont even have police to help them and are constantly in a battle zone. Life is easy compared to what they have to go through. They could die any time but in the US almost all of the children grow up to be adults. We live in a perfect world compared to what they go through. They have fun by throwing rocks at tanks. We have fun by staying inside and playing games about blowing up tanks.

 I am going to blog about my weekend. So today I was going to my sister house and we where going to go shopping. We are going to Chicago to find some shoes and other things I don't know what shoes we are going. Also, we are going out to eat before we go we are going out to eat.

this weekend i have work , today i work 5-close,tomorrow i work 5-close,sunday i work 2-7. I am gonna be so tiered from working this weekend but at least sunday i do 2-7 so i don't have to do 5-close but I guess im going to be be making money Tho!
i don't wanna go to work today cause im starting not to like my job and also kinda want find a different job but it whatever its just a paycheck to take and be happy with sometimes i don't wanna work on the weekend to have more stuff to do but oh well

One time i was at football and this one guy that was new was getting talked about and i just put my stuff on and went out side. the next day i seen them taking about so i went over there and told them to chill and put their stuff on so they wasn't late to football. i feel bad if i just sit there and let people get picked on.

No changes to help the problem

There was a lot of times i was a bystander but i couldn't help but not jump in. Sometimes when my cousins were getting beat by there moms, or when there was fights at school i wasn't trying to get hit or in trouble. There were also time people were bystanders to me. When something bad was happening to me. Some people today say they aren't one but everybody is in their everyday life. even firefighters hospital people outside of work and inside they are 100% of people are and if you deny it then i don't know whats wrong with you Lol! Anyways nothing will ever change that people nowadays don't care or listen. Like if you're getting bullied or the little things like rumors and you don,t stop it and you go along with it you are considered one even if you don't agree. I wish something could change it. We all are going to have to live with it no matter how small or big it is it will always be the same.

Bystander happens all the time

Theres really no time when I am a bystander because you can always be a bystander 24/7 for example people are dying everyday and we all just sit back and let it happen. Another thing is people are voting for Donald Trump to be president and there are people sitting by letting it happen when we know the possible effect that will take place if he is elected. America wouldn't be the same anymore. In schools people are being bullied and there are a lot of fights and people sits back and watches them and record them on video to show everyone else. Instead of someone trying to jump in and stop the fight and take the lead as a rescuer instead of a bystander. Someone can easily be killed in a fight no matter how old you are, a broken neck is an example of someone being killed. A time I was a bystander was on my 14th birthday my dad and god mom had to fight this one guy who was drunk, it was all at the party we had and the guy broke my god moms arm and dug his fingers in my dads eyes. Later the police came and got him because my dad was holding him down until they got there. At this time I didn't know if I was suppose to help or just sit by. This was probably one of the biggest moments in my life to think that the day I was born 14 years later my dad would have to fight someone.

The Bystander Effect

One time I walked into my two brothers arguing in the kitchen , Sudden thoughts went thru my mind. I wondered if they were going to physically fight. I knew that my oldest brother was probably going to swing. I never said anything I watched them as if I were a vulture hungry for roadkill. All that went through my mind was to get ready to pull out my phone. They soon settled down and I realized what if I actually did just stand by and record while they fought. I never really cared who got hurt but its just the thought that I could've gotten in trouble for not stepping in. my dad often tell us 4 brothers that "brothers don't fight against each other, they fight with each other. After that I started stepping in and putting my words to action.

miles story

one time i was picking with my brother (before i was going to sleep  which was a blankets on the floor with pillows), calling him names and saying he can't whoop me.  Then he came out of the back room and threw a blanket over me me and started hitting me and i started screaming help! help! help!.  My grandma came out of the kitchen and told us to stop play fighting or we were getting in trouble so my brother gets off me and hits me again and i yell then he slips and falls and he slid into the fan that was on the ground and i started dyeing laughing. Then i laid down and went to sleep.



victim : me

perpetrator: brother

Rescuer: grandma and blanket

the triangle victim and bystander story

The triangle is bystander,perpetrator,victim,rescuer. Everyone have been one of these before but i am going to tell about the time my brother was a victim and i was the bystander. so my little brother is in the 3rd grade and he is really nice to everyone he keeps to himself and well say hello to new people and make new friends. He was hiding something he didn't  tell us until my mom got it out of him. that someone was picking on him. well it was a group of other boys one of them used to be his best friend. that  became a jerk called him names and when i found out. I was really pissed but i couldn't do anything. because if i would have did anything i might not be here.I care about my brothers and we'll do anything to protect them. I hate hearing about him getting picked on. I was just  bystander i couldn't do anything but my mom told the school moved them into a different part of the class and my little brother have not said anything about it so i hope that he is ok.

I was a bystander in lots of situations. One time when i was at victory , 2 of my friends got to fighting. I didn't break it up or attempt to break it up. I thought i was doing the right by letting them get their anger. But i was totally wrong and i regret it. One of them got pushed into a steel pole an bussed his head open. It was a very crazy and shocking situation. His parents had to come get him an i had to wait there for them. So i was the one who had to explain everything. I felt like everything was my fault because it maybe could have been prevented. Even though they decided to let it get to that point. Its just a life learned lesson for the future.

Jimmy Savile the perpetrator, there were 200 witnesses which would be the bystanders of the incident but also the total number of alleged victims were 589 and 450 alleged abuse by Savile, "within the recorded crimes there are 126 indecent acts and 34 rape/penetration offences." so with there was no rescuer there was just bystanders , the BBC wanted to "paint over the situation" covering it up like it never happen.

MY LIFEEEEEE

so my name is Marissa i go by sissa lol so my life is a pretty well life except my parents are divorced oh well i still see my mom but i live with nana life is great for me because i dont need a dad i have other people who love me yes i know it sounds kinda sad i dont want my dad around but i dont even know anything about him yes i have met him and i do miss him but im good. but anyways my mom and me and my grandma always have good times to gather we go shopping out to eat and go on trips its so fun and yea i think it would be nice to have my dad around but he busy raising my half brothers and sisters .......what ever even know i was his first daughter that was brought into this world but i guess it doesn't matter to him but like i said im cool my life going great without him to be honest. he is a bistander because its like he doesn't do anything for me  he has never called me on my b day or even said i love u or do u wanna come see me nothing like that so i guess he doesnt care well i dnt either

My blog is going to be about a song. The song is called Love Me and it's by a girl.But basically she was sing about a boy and she was expressing her feelings to him threw the song. Like trying to reach out to him. But I don't think he was getting the message. But she was really saying she wants someone to like her for her. But I guess he doesn't like her for her. This is like a love triangle because one minute he likes her then the next he doesn't